
Ravi is a 77-year-old man living with his daughter Sunita (42 years old) and her family, at their home. Ravi has ischemic heart disease, hypertension, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) and Type 2 diabetes. These conditions have led to significant physical decline over the past year, contributing to decreased mobility, several hospitalisations, and increased, severe fatigue. He describes low appetite, increasing swelling of his legs, feet and ankles, and growing shortness of breath, which is starting to occur event when he is at rest. Ravi currently receives an in-home aged care services through the Support at Home program, including assistance with personal care.
Over time, Ravi’s physical health has impacted his mental health and wellbeing. Ravi ruminates about his growing dependence on his daughter, his reduced physical abilities, and a profound loss of a sense of identity and meaning. His GP has identified that he has moderate depression.
Sunita is Ravi’s primary carer and his only child. Sunita balances caring for Ravi with part-time work and parenting her two teenage children. Sunita and Ravi are both estranged from Sunita’s mother, since she and Ravi divorced about 25 years ago. Sunita and Ravi have a very close relationship, although Ravi often feels guilty about the impact of his increasing needs on Sunita’s day-to-day routine, and on her partner and their children. He also knows that Sunita and her partner are under financial stress. Still, Sunita is very clear about being committed to caring for Ravi at home, in line with him previously expressing his wish to remain at home for the rest of his life.
Prior to his health worsening, Ravi was involved over many years in a community garden, where he found a sense of meaning and connection with others. Ravi stopped attending in recent months due to his limited mobility and fatigue. Two of his closest friends from the garden have died in the past 2 years, and another is in very poor health.
Ravi identifies as Hindu. While he appears to hold some related beliefs and values to be important, he is not strongly engaged in practices related to his faith. He has begun to reflect heavily on his estrangement from Sunita’s mother and voices some regrets about aspects of their relationship.